discern

when we see and discern that a brother or sister is being sifted by the enemy , lets not kick them while they're down. let us pray earnestly loving one another with a pure heart fervently bearing one another's burdens and so fulfil the Law of Christ . when one hurts we all hurt . let us be led by the Spirit of the Lord and build up one another in the most Holy faith edifying and exhorting one another and when it is needed bringing correction restoring such an one in the spirit of meekness.