A forgiving person

A forgiving person has much to offer . an unforgiving person has nothing good to offer. forgiveness is backed by actions. one can say they forgive you but when their actions clearly say that they haven't rather then argue back just stand still let God be your defense and pray for that person. you cannot expect someone to believe you when you say I forgive you yet your actions bash the person and you keep throwing their flaws in their face repetitively bringing up everything they have ever said or done wrong. forgiveness extends mercy love and compassion. you cant truly forgive and extend mercy compassion and love when you haven't truly accepted it From God or when you haven't truly forgiven yourself.